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		<title>By: mkg</title>
		<link>http://marygreer.wordpress.com/2008/09/01/its-in-the-cards/#comment-486</link>
		<dc:creator>mkg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Sep 2008 16:06:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Gouri - You asked why the reader didn&#039;t lie with the &#039;magik&#039; deck. To me there was a sense of compulsion about it—like its message was filling her head so full that there was no room for anything else. Just my take on it. Good question.

Is sugar-coating unethical? First, this is not a black and white issue. Is a glass half empty or half full? If you tell a person the opposite of what the cards say then I don&#039;t think you are doing anyone a service. If you are honest, but also look to the cards for how a person can best work with and learn from the situation, then you are, to my mind, assisting them. Also, what you first perceive as a tragedy (say the Tower, Moon, 10 of Swords, and Death) might be something else altogether. 

I had a reading like that and nearly panicked, but it turned out the client was a Hospice nurse and she was feeling really burned out dealing with death and people&#039;s grief every day. Once I got that (by asking her where all this darkness was in her life—since it was too pervasive to be unknown to her) we could focus on what she could do about it.

Most people are relieved and grateful to know that someone else perceives the difficulties they are going through, as Isaac expressed so well in the story.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gouri &#8211; You asked why the reader didn&#8217;t lie with the &#8216;magik&#8217; deck. To me there was a sense of compulsion about it—like its message was filling her head so full that there was no room for anything else. Just my take on it. Good question.</p>
<p>Is sugar-coating unethical? First, this is not a black and white issue. Is a glass half empty or half full? If you tell a person the opposite of what the cards say then I don&#8217;t think you are doing anyone a service. If you are honest, but also look to the cards for how a person can best work with and learn from the situation, then you are, to my mind, assisting them. Also, what you first perceive as a tragedy (say the Tower, Moon, 10 of Swords, and Death) might be something else altogether. </p>
<p>I had a reading like that and nearly panicked, but it turned out the client was a Hospice nurse and she was feeling really burned out dealing with death and people&#8217;s grief every day. Once I got that (by asking her where all this darkness was in her life—since it was too pervasive to be unknown to her) we could focus on what she could do about it.</p>
<p>Most people are relieved and grateful to know that someone else perceives the difficulties they are going through, as Isaac expressed so well in the story.</p>
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		<title>By: Gouri</title>
		<link>http://marygreer.wordpress.com/2008/09/01/its-in-the-cards/#comment-484</link>
		<dc:creator>Gouri</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Sep 2008 10:40:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A question kept creeping in my mind - If the reader habitually did dishonest readings, why didnt she do the same with the &#039;magik&#039; deck as well?? 

I am new to the study of tarot and very often when i read for friends and aquaintances and see something bad, I sugar-coat my predictions... partly out of not wanting to hurt and partly out of not being confident. Would this qualify as being unethical??</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A question kept creeping in my mind &#8211; If the reader habitually did dishonest readings, why didnt she do the same with the &#8216;magik&#8217; deck as well?? </p>
<p>I am new to the study of tarot and very often when i read for friends and aquaintances and see something bad, I sugar-coat my predictions&#8230; partly out of not wanting to hurt and partly out of not being confident. Would this qualify as being unethical??</p>
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		<title>By: Angelo N</title>
		<link>http://marygreer.wordpress.com/2008/09/01/its-in-the-cards/#comment-478</link>
		<dc:creator>Angelo N</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Sep 2008 02:59:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It funny how this could have only have been made back then because the Rider waite was the most popular. Now a days with all the different decks it would be hard to have the right one to switch lol 
Kool vid. I like any videos with tarot even if it makes it look bad.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It funny how this could have only have been made back then because the Rider waite was the most popular. Now a days with all the different decks it would be hard to have the right one to switch lol<br />
Kool vid. I like any videos with tarot even if it makes it look bad.</p>
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		<title>By: ElizabethGenco.com &#187; on feeling lucky and ambiguous</title>
		<link>http://marygreer.wordpress.com/2008/09/01/its-in-the-cards/#comment-470</link>
		<dc:creator>ElizabethGenco.com &#187; on feeling lucky and ambiguous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Sep 2008 01:57:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I ever mentioned my affection for 80&#8217;s horror anthology shows? Mary Greer finds this great old Tales Of The Darkside that&#8217;s all Tarot. Awful with the stereotypes, but as she points out, it&#8217;s rare to find [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] I ever mentioned my affection for 80&#8217;s horror anthology shows? Mary Greer finds this great old Tales Of The Darkside that&#8217;s all Tarot. Awful with the stereotypes, but as she points out, it&#8217;s rare to find [...]</p>
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		<title>By: marygreer</title>
		<link>http://marygreer.wordpress.com/2008/09/01/its-in-the-cards/#comment-462</link>
		<dc:creator>marygreer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:05:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Flavio - I agree, there are some right-on moments. Part of the discussion with Isaac was surprisingly intelligent and touching.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Flavio &#8211; I agree, there are some right-on moments. Part of the discussion with Isaac was surprisingly intelligent and touching.</p>
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		<title>By: Flavio</title>
		<link>http://marygreer.wordpress.com/2008/09/01/its-in-the-cards/#comment-461</link>
		<dc:creator>Flavio</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:19:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for sharing the links!  Even if the show is from the 80&#039;s, Tarot is still portrayed the same way today. The &quot;lesson&quot; from Madame Marlena to Catherine about ethics is right, those of us trying to same something serious about Tarot get a bad name because of those &quot;disbelievers&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for sharing the links!  Even if the show is from the 80&#8217;s, Tarot is still portrayed the same way today. The &#8220;lesson&#8221; from Madame Marlena to Catherine about ethics is right, those of us trying to same something serious about Tarot get a bad name because of those &#8220;disbelievers&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: marygreer</title>
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		<dc:creator>marygreer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Sep 2008 18:31:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So - did the deck come into her life because she was already slated for the final disaster or did it cause it? In other words, did the deck cause the deaths it predicted or did it just draw clients who were already doomed?

What would have happened if she faced the predictions honestly right from the beginning? Would the cards have continued to &#039;haunt&#039; her if she had &#039;come clean&#039;? Of course, then it would have been a different story.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So &#8211; did the deck come into her life because she was already slated for the final disaster or did it cause it? In other words, did the deck cause the deaths it predicted or did it just draw clients who were already doomed?</p>
<p>What would have happened if she faced the predictions honestly right from the beginning? Would the cards have continued to &#8216;haunt&#8217; her if she had &#8216;come clean&#8217;? Of course, then it would have been a different story.</p>
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		<title>By: Tero</title>
		<link>http://marygreer.wordpress.com/2008/09/01/its-in-the-cards/#comment-456</link>
		<dc:creator>Tero</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Sep 2008 18:03:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This rocks.. big time! Thanks again for posting, I&#039;ll &quot;spread the good news&quot; to finnish tarot-holics. Btw, some serious issue with the knight of swords there, have to say..

-tero</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This rocks.. big time! Thanks again for posting, I&#8217;ll &#8220;spread the good news&#8221; to finnish tarot-holics. Btw, some serious issue with the knight of swords there, have to say..</p>
<p>-tero</p>
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		<title>By: Mark</title>
		<link>http://marygreer.wordpress.com/2008/09/01/its-in-the-cards/#comment-450</link>
		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Sep 2008 04:40:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I saw this when it originally aired back in 1984 and I remembered it even though I was not into Tarot then.  Thanks for sharing it with me again.  It was fun!

Mark</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I saw this when it originally aired back in 1984 and I remembered it even though I was not into Tarot then.  Thanks for sharing it with me again.  It was fun!</p>
<p>Mark</p>
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